Hey, Saints I wanted to come to you today to talk about a never-ending subject: HARASSMENT. Now seeing celebrities coming out stating how they have “been touched.” I feel this is a subject that needs highlighting. Stars are not the only people getting touched or harassed nowadays. There is no up and down system to who is getting attacked. I know that at places of employment companies hand out employee handbooks about harassment, but I also know some companies don’t want to deal with the issue even though they have rules set in place.
Harassment covers a wide range of behaviors; it’s commonly understood as behavior that disturbs or upsets, and it is characteristically repetitive. In the legal sense, it is behaviors that appear to be disturbing or threatening so this can be someone sexually looking at you, calling you nonstop, bullying you, touching you in ways you do not approve of. Just remember if someone is abusing, insulting, or otherwise harming you on a regular basis, it’s called harassment.
Harassment charges can range from misdemeanor to high level felony charges. In many states, people charged with harassment will receive a higher level charge if they have previously been convicted of harassment, of communicating a threat, or of a domestic violence offense.
Please don’t be scared to speak out against harassment. Remember you are not in it alone and there is always someone out there who has it worst than you.
Being nice doesn’t get you what you want or need. Let’s face it you get stepped on. At the end of the day, you are still overly nice believing that someday things will change. Being submissive in so many ways because that’s apart of your personality (as you might think). People who are loyal, supportive, caring, honest giving get the short end of the stick its just how life is set up.
Being nice can have an impact on an individuals life in so many ways. Getting push around at work, not getting the person they’re falling head over heels for, called for booty calls (if that’s what you like…I’m am not here to judge), broken promises, just basically not getting what they deserve in life.
I say fuck all that shit! Why not go out there and get what you deserve, follow your dreams go after that man that you have had a crush on since high school, what are you waiting for? You guys know the saying time waits for no one and let me just add on to that tomorrow isn’t promised.
On the other hand when women are boss bitches, slayed out queens that take no bullshit, care less about what other people think. THEY WINNING BOO! So, stop worrying about if people are going to like you if you are nice or not, be true to yourself and the right people will come into your life at the right time.
Who does he love more? The person he is being untruthful to or the one he is honest with? I have listened to many different opinions on this topic (from mostly men) hearing so many different opinions for which I had to come to realize all men think differently. This was a shocker to me at first but yes, they have different views on being honest and untruthful in a relationship.
Hearing that the one he is untruthful to, he might love so much that he can’t handle to tell his intentions because he doesn’t think his partner can handle it, is full of shit to me but hey that is what he thinks. Likewise, for the one he tells the truth to he can be honest with admitting to the good or the bad because he has faith that his love for her can’t be changed by any mistake. And possibly the love they have can withstand anything. So maybe he loves the one he tells the truth to more? Right, how about people in relationships stop being selfish and if they want to act on the characteristic of being selfish they can be by themselves; hey I’m just saying.
At first, I thought this question would have been easy and I would have received the same response from everyone I asked. Going into this topic and hearing so many different stories all I can think about is knowing your self-worth as an individual. As a person, you should know that once any relationship starts off with the lies it’s time to depart. It might be hard but trust me you will look back in life like I made the best choice ever. I believe that NO man will ever try to hurt someone they truly love. My mother told me once you start any type of relationship with lies it will always end in lies and I have gone to witness this in many of my relationships myself.
Comment below. I would love to hear other opinions on this subject.